A Thousand Splendid Suns: Assignment #4

When Mariam was a little child her Nana yelled at her calling her, "a clumsy little harami." When Mariam was teenager she spitefully said, "You're afraid that I might find the happiness you never had. And you don't want me to be happy. You don't want a good life for me. You're the one with a wretched heart." This incident occurred after Mariam said that, "she was sick of Nana twisting the truths if their life and making her, Marian another of her grievance against the world." What long term affect did Nana have Mariam's life by using her as the scapegoat for all of her problems?